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It is as if no one wants to put the effort into the relationship after a while.
It is human nature and men and women are both guilty of it in their own ways.
Take him at his word and move on to someone who values relationships the way you do.
Sign he’s just not into you: He encourages you to date other people.
If, on the other hand, you find yourself waiting around or having to contact him yourself without getting any explanation as to why he didn’t bother contacting you, then he’s probably not as keen as you’d like him to be. You’re the one who’s always initiating contact and arranging dates For better or worse, men are conditioned to be the initiators.
You’ll find that even shy guys will happily arrange to meet up once they’ve established you’re interested in them.
If your date encourages you to date other people, it’s not because he wants to experience the enlightenment that comes with multiple dinner-plans partners; he’s just not into you enough to want you all to himself.
I have never been the girl who dreamed of weddings or wanted to get married, and I have never, ever wanted children, still do not. I have only ever had two relationships, and one I do not count because it lasted only a few months and I was a teenager.The other one ended in so much pain, betrayal, and hurt for me that I can't imagine going through that again.I sometimes wonder if my lack of interest in dating is just a wall I've put up to prevent that from ever happening to me again. Why is it that in the world of romance, so many relationships end up with your man losing interest in you and the partnership, seemingly all at once, like there was an expiration date on the fun times, and then he withdraws?Keeping the flame burning brightly once the novelty has worn off can be a real challenge since comfort breeds laziness.